My Big, Fat Emirati Wedding

I went to my first Emirati wedding on Thursday night at the Rotana Hotel in Al Ain.  I was planning on an early night, when Janessa, a teacher friend, called to ask if I wanted to go. Apparently, those invited can invite others.  The groom was the son of her school's principal.

When we got there, the men were outside doing the traditional Emirati sword dances in their kandoras.  Inside, was the women's part - many women sitting around tables of 10, many in their abeya robes.  On a stage was a female singer and two dancers, along with lots bright Arabic lighting and decoration.  Very loud. 

Then the food and drink started.  Many appetizers - humous and all that, coffee, different teas, pomegranate juice.  Then mixed grill, then lamb and rice, and birianyi.  Perfume/oud was brought round for us to put on.  It was all very generous and pleasant, especially as I didn't know the bride or groom or anyone else there!

The bride arrived slowly, being filmed by a film crew, and walked up to stage area. We could see what the men were doing on a big TV screen, too.  The bride was in a white elaborate wedding dress, very made up.  The groom then arrived and sat with the bride.  They didn't mingle with the guests.  As we left, they were cutting a tiered wedding cake.

I am informed that Emirati citizens are given 80,000 dirhams ($20,000) from the government for their weddings.  Maybe that's why they could afford to have me there.  It was a nice night out.  I appreciated being included! 

I hope the bride and groom know each other and that it all works out.  Emirati divorce rates are increasing. 

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